- Dominant
- Exhibitionist
- Voyeur
- Sadist
- Non-monogamous
- Swinger
- Photographer
- Ethical
I’d like to think that I’m all of these things in a good way, but you can be the judge of that.
I’m a pervert and proud of it.
Now that I’ve left a nice trite introduction here’s a bit more about me.
I’m in a long term relationship with my gorgeous girlfriend Miss C. She’s my muse, my confidant, and my lover. Miss C is also my submissive slut and I adore her for it.
As a Dominant
I’m confident, but not arrogant. Many dominants have an alpha-type persona but I like to think I’m more subtle in my approach. I believe that I can be both a Dominant man and a Gentleman, even if I have to choose the best bits of both.
When I work with a submissive I enjoy to play with those who enjoy to be challenged, I set tasks and I aim to weave together a debaucherous blend of both the carrot and the stick.
As an Exhibitionist
I’m not shy of being naked around people I like and get a real thrill from to sharing my Smut photography. I love to play publicly when the circumstances allow or require it.
As a Voyeur
I love to watch people whether knowingly or unknowingly in their intimate moments. I love those moments of “time out” within group play when you savour the erotic ambience.
Voyeurism is the source and the inspiration for my photography.
As a Sadist
I like to work with masochists who are looking explore their limits. I revel in the incremental increase as our trust grows. For that reason I prefer regular sessions with the same masochists rather than lots of one off play sessions with complete strangers. I’m a particular fan of corporal punishment.
As a non-monogamist and swinger
I’ve been with my Miss C for just over 11 years now. We’ve welcomed friends into our private world for most of that time both together and separately. We have an amazing set of long term friends across several cities and countries.
I don’t play in secret from my partner, and I don’t play with those who are playing in secret from theirs.
As a Photographer
I shoot Smut. I’m quite discerning about the work that I put out there, so don’t expect copious amounts of images to wade through. I love to shoot both tasteful play shots as well as posed portraits. I’m very critical of my work and I know it can be better. I continue to aim to make it so.
About my ethics
Ethics aren’t generally sexy, but to me they are very important. My ethics most relevant to the context of FetLife are as follows:
- I don’t play with those who do so without the blessing of their partner.
- I don’t play with those whose consent appears to me to be impaired by alcohol or drugs
- I don’t publish photos without the consent of the subjects